BURT: For most guys sex is just, you know this thing we always wanna do, you know, it’s fun, it feels great but we’re not really thinking too much about how it makes us feel on the inside or you know, how the other person feels about it.
KURT: Women are different?
BURT: Only because they get that it’s about something more than just the physical. When you’re intimate with somebody in that way, you’re exposing yourself, you know, you’re never going to be more vulnerable and that scares the hell out of a lot of guys. Believe me. I can’t tell you how many buddies I’ve got who have gotten in way too deep with a girl who said she was cool with just hooking up.
KURT: But that’s not going to happen to me, Dad.
BURT: No, it’s gonna be worse okay, because it’s two guys. With two guys, you got two people who think that sex is just sex. It’s going to be easier to come by and once you start doing this stuff, you’re not gonna wanna stop. You gotta know that it means something. It’s doing something to you, to your heart, to your self esteem even though it feels like just having fun.
KURT: So…you’re saying I shouldn’t have sex?
BURT: I think that on your thirtieth birthday it is a great gift to yourself. Kurt, when you’re ready I want you to be able to do…everything but when you’re ready I want you to use it as a way to connect to another person. Don’t throw yourself around like you don’t matter, because you matter Kurt.
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